To love someone means that you love the person exactly as they are, exactly as they were before, and exactly as they will be in the future. People change all the time, so if you love someone, you will love that person even if you disagree with the choices that he/she makes. Love is not about you or your pleasure or your amusement. Its not about what the other person can give you. Its not about having a trophy that you can show off with and tell people "this is MY boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife". You do not own anyone. Its not about feeling "proud" to be with someone who always agrees with everything you say and do, and never does anything you disagree with. Love means that the person can live their life exactly how they choose and you will always be there for them no matter what. Being in love with someone can be the happiest feeling in the world, yet it can also be the saddest if the person you love doesnt love you back.